Have you ever feel like such a loser, that you try so hard not to suck but somehow your efforts are unaccounted for & nothing's changed.
Like somehow you tried so hard to change people's perception on you, but you end up convincing them with their presumptions.
Then, you learned a lesson. That is that, you have to allow yourself to think that you are the only thing that matter to yourself. Do not mind what people think of you because the truth is we are not built to please people.
When I found myself whining whenever I put others above myself, I'll then ask, "Why did you?..."
Because if we're sincere, then we shouldn't be complaining...